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Checkup

Quick, private self-checks for the first year as a dad. Most are built on the same tools clinicians use — and they all run entirely on your device. Nothing you answer is ever sent anywhere or seen by us. Not a diagnosis; a clear read on where you are and what helps next.

Depression · PHQ-9~2 min

Am I depressed?

The screen doctors use, for dads. Where your mood actually sits — and whether it’s worth talking to someone.

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Anxiety · GAD-7~2 min

Am I anxious?

Racing mind, on edge, can’t switch off? The standard anxiety screen, in two minutes.

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Dad mental health · GMDS~2 min

New dad mental health check

Depression in men often looks like anger, numbness or burnout. A check for what’s really going on — incl. paternal postpartum depression.

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Burnout · CBI~2 min

Am I burnt out?

Burnt out, or just tired? The Copenhagen Burnout Inventory, for dads — your level and which kind of dad you’ve become.

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Parental burnout · PBA~2 min

Parental burnout test

The four signs of parental burnout researchers measure — distinct from ordinary tiredness.

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Stress · adapted~2 min

Am I too stressed?

Cruising, Loaded or Maxed Out? A quick perceived-stress read for the post-baby year.

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Relationship · CSI-4~1 min

How’s our relationship?

Just tired and drifting, or genuinely unhappy? A research-backed satisfaction read in four questions.

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Attachment · ECR~2 min

What’s my attachment style?

Anchor, Pursuer, Island or Storm-Tossed? How you bond under stress — and what it means for you two.

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Quick read60 sec

What’s going on with us?

Something shifted since the baby and you can’t name it. One tap → a straight read and the one thing that helps.

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Why we built these. Most dads never get asked how they're doing after a baby. These checks are a private, no-pressure way to find out — and to point you to the right next step, whether that's a professional, a good read, or a small move tonight with Regular. Built and reviewed by the Regular editorial team using validated, freely available instruments.
These checks are information and support, not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. If you're struggling, talking to a qualified professional is a strong move. If you or someone in your family is in immediate danger, call your local emergency services, or find mental-health support in your country.