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Checkup

Quick, private self-checks for the first year as a dad. Most are built on the same tools clinicians use — and they all run entirely on your device. Nothing you answer is ever sent anywhere or seen by us. Not a diagnosis; a clear read on where you are and what helps next.

Burnout · CBI~2 min

Am I burnt out?

Burnt out, or just tired? The Copenhagen Burnout Inventory, for dads — get your level and which kind of dad you've become.

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PHQ-9 + GAD-7~3 min

Depression & anxiety check

The two screens doctors use, for dads. Is it depression or anxiety — or the hardest year? Tells you whether to see a professional.

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CSI-4 · validated~1 min

Relationship check

Are you two just tired and drifting, or genuinely unhappy? A research-backed satisfaction read in four questions.

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Burnout · PBA-based~2 min

Parental burnout check

Burnt out, or just tired? A brief read across the four signs of parental burnout researchers measure.

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Quick read60 sec

What's going on with us?

Something shifted since the baby and you can't name it. One tap → a straight, judgment-free read and the one thing that helps.

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Why we built these. Most dads never get asked how they're doing after a baby. These checks are a private, no-pressure way to find out — and to point you to the right next step, whether that's a professional, a good read, or a small move tonight with Regular. Built and reviewed by the Regular editorial team using validated, freely available instruments.
These checks are information and support, not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. If you're struggling, talking to a qualified professional is a strong move. If you or someone in your family is in immediate danger, call your local emergency services, or find mental-health support in your country.